Are you up for the Challenge!?!

Challenge of the month!

Recently I gave a friend the following challenge. Whether you are single, in a relationship or married, it's a good idea! A few years ago I went through and wrote out my list and I encourage you to do the same!

1:   My challenge to you is to write up a list of twenty (20)  things/ qualities you want in your future spouse. 

Write them out on a piece of paper so that you can physically write on it and hang it up on your wall.  Pray over each item in a week period.

2:  Next go through and circle the ten (10) that you feel are most important.

3:  Finally highlight the top five (5) out of the ones circled.

What is the objective?

It's to get you thinking about what REALLY matters. Don't go looking for a spouse, God has a plan and we don't need to be actively searching. But praying for your future spouse is a good idea, pray for their heart, mind and spirit. Ask God to protect them and give them strength to make it through the day. And that they continue to grow in their relationship with the Lord.
  
Also, as you look at the list you have made, ask yourself if you have those same qualities. Are you actively growing in your faith? Do you have a humble spirit or one filled with pride?  Are you using your spiritual gifts to bless others and bring glory to God?

I want to encourage you (personally) to grow in the areas that you want your future spouse to grow! It's hard to grow, but it's totally worth it!


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